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What do you do with kids in Hong Kong?

July 1st, 2009 · Destinations

Check the summer issue of Hip Compass Escapes and read my story in the Mommy Files to find out. It doesn’t involve Hong Kong Disneyland or Ocean Park.

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Settling in Hartford, CT

June 11th, 2009 · Misc

It has been a rough couple of months, but we finally have a house near Hartford, Connecticut and I am furiously making it into a home (hence why I have been so quiet).  I am committed to making it as green as possible – to LEED/California school air quality standards – which poses many challenges, as does trying to paint with two and half year old and canine helpers.   If stories continue at this pace I’ll have plenty of material for a second blog on green renovations.

If I can get internet up and running in our new home (I struggle with the choice of insufferable bureaucracy or extortion pricing, neither of them prompt) then I have a lot to share with you including: a review of the new book Traveling with Kids by Leslie Forsberg and Michelle Duffy, a preview of my New England Summer, a guide to visiting San Francisco from a resident turned visitor, and more.

Off to the hardware store for a wire brush and then to meet with an electrician.

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The Safest Sunscreens for Kids

May 20th, 2009 · Gear, Tips & Tricks

Unfortunately, I have become a sunscreen expert since my first skin cancers were removed at 32 years old.  It was a side effect of growing up in Florida with pasty skin plus dumb high school sun “tanning.”

Sunscreen 101

There are two types of harmful rays – UVA and UVB.  The easy way to remember how they affect us, is A is for Aging and B is for Burn.  Burns show up right away so if we don’t burn many assume their sunscreen is working.  But, the UVA penetrates deeper in the skin and is believed to cause skin cancers as well as premature aging.

Until recently sunscreens focused on blocking UVB rays, but with increasing linkages between UVA and skin cancer, sunscreens are adding UVA protection.  These are called “broad spectrum sunscreens.”  The most effective sunscreens combine ingredients to absorb and reflect the UV rays.  The American Academy of Dermatology has a great summary, including the ingredients to look for on their website.

I am sure you know this already but here are the basic sunscreen rules:
1) Apply liberally a half-hour before going outside. Use more than you think you should.
2) Reapply every two hours.  The chemicals that protect you from the sun break down in the sun.
3) Reapply after swimming or sweating because water-resistant and sport sunscreens do wash off.
4) Throw out sunscreens that are over one year old. The chemicals that protect you from the sun lose efficacy over time.
5) Sunscreen only works if you use it – keep a bottle, tube or stick everywhere: one in car, purse, diaper bag, stroller, beach bag, etc.

Finding the best broad-spectrum sunscreens

At the time of my skin cancer discovery, the best broad-spectrum sunscreens were available only outside of the US, combining micronized titanium dioxide and a chemical with the brand name Mexoryl.   I stocked up on Anthelios when traveling and found a source on EBay.  My doctors were doing the same thing.

Mexoryl is now available in the US through L’Oreal owned brands and Neutrogena has introduced Helioplex, another advanced broad-spectrum sunscreen booster.  Oxybenzone and avobenzone (Parsol 1789) also provide UVA protection so I made sure all of my sunscreens had at least one of these listed in the active ingredients.

Sunscreens for my baby

Along came my red-haired, blue eyed, pasty skinned daughter and I used the imported sunscreens on her with nary a freckle.  At her 18-month check up, the doctor noticed she was growing boobs!  I quickly learned that there are lots of chemicals that act like estrogen.

First, we had to get rid of products with parabens, which are common preservatives in most sunscreens (and lotions and butt creams and shampoos.)  Second, it turns out most of the actual sunscreen chemicals are estrogenic.   The Sprecher Institute for Comparative Cancer Research at Cornell Univeristy was a great resource for learning about the links between chemicals and breast development.

Using the Environmental Working Group’s (EWG) Skin Deep Cosmetic Safety Database and reading a lot of ingredient lists, we started finding paraben-free physical sunscreens which use zinc and titanium dioxide to reflect sun.  There is mixed information on the safety of avobenzone, so I have avoided it for the time.

If you have tried a “baby” sunscreen, which are often free of chemical sunscreens (though many have parabens), most have the consistency of toothpaste.  Have you ever tried covering a toddler in toothpaste?  Sunscreen only works when it applied thoroughly and liberally, so consistency becomes an important factor in sunscreen selection.

Also, it turned out that the right ingredients and a high SPF do not always mean the sunscreen works.  Both Consumer Reports and the EWG found this in their testing.  It cost us a few freckles testing new sunscreens.

Finally, as these are “niche” products, they cost a lot more than store brand sunscreens using less expensive parabens and chemical sunscreens.  The trial and error was expensive, and we have yet to find a bargain sunscreen that is chemically OK, a reasonable consistency and effective.

There are many sunscreens we tried that failed because they were too thick, too greasy or just didn’t protect from the sun.  I am also constantly on the lookout for new sunscreens, especially in spray bottles that work for us a reasonable price.Some of our Aresenal (sticks are in the car and stroller)

Our sunscreen arsenal

Vanicream – SPF 30 & 60. My dermatologist recommended Vanicream for me because it did not cause breakouts.  After the boobs diagnosis, I began using it on my daughter.  It is on the thick side and seems greasy at first but rubs in well on light and mid tone skin.  I use SPF 30 daily and the SPF 60 on our faces when we are in sun intensive environments like the beach or pool. $12.99-$16.99 for 4oz tubes (drugstore.com)

Lavera Sun Spray SPF 30 Neutral. This was the first spray/pump bottle sunscreen that met our criteria.  It has a nice watery consistency, goes on quickly and easily, is not greasy and is effective.  It is also water resistant and most of the ingredients are organic.  The downside is it’s frighteningly expensive so I am on the lookout for an alternative.  $31 for a 6.6oz bottle (lavera.com)

TruKid Sunny Days SPF 30+ Natural Mineral Sunscreen Water Resistant Face & Body Stick. I love stick sunscreens because you can stash them everywhere and your preschooler can self apply with supervision.  They work best on the face and in emergencies elsewhere.  TruKid is a little greasy but effective. From $7.99 for a 0.64oz stick (toysrus.com)

Sunforgettable by Colorescience SPF30 Brush. This powder sunscreen goes on dry and was another product I used to avoid breakouts. It comes in different form factors, but I find the brush most convenient and carry it with me everywhere.  It is expensive but lasts over a year with frequent use. $50 for a 0.23oz brush (check colorescience.com for locations).

Neutrogena Pure & Free Baby SPF 60+ Sunblock Stick and Lotion:  I plan to test this new line this summer as it passes the ingredient screen.  It is priced similar to Vanicream but is widely available so can be picked up on the go and more importantly on sale.  $8.99 for the stick and $10.99 for 3oz.

Not only is summer almost here, May is National Skin Cancer Awareness Month.  Please protect your family’s skin.

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How to keep kids off airplanes? Ask US Air.

May 4th, 2009 · Misc

US Air has come up with a way to keep children off airplanes while diverting controversy to a more benign topic.  The new $5 per bag fee to pay checked baggage fees at the airport is clearly aimed at parents.

Most parents know that the only chance to change seating so the family can sit together is to check-in 23 hours and 59 minutes before the flight.  (And even that is a long shot because some airlines would rather have you pay to upgrade than seat you together.)  Now really, a day before you flight do you have any idea how many bags you will be checking? Have you even pulled the suitcases out of the attic?

I don’t know about most parents, but I am packing right up until the minute we leave the house.  Between getting the toys, diapers, snacks, change of clothes, electronics, and children on the plane, I check as much as I can.  And, despite my resolution to travel lighter this year, when you have to leave the house in 15 minutes and realize there has been an “accident” that you have to clean up, I just throw whatever I think I might need into any bag that doesn’t seem to be over 50lbs.  If I fly US Airways with my family, I will always be paying the extra coin.

So you see, US Airways is really trying to discourage all but the most organized parents, (who maybe they assume have the most perfectly behaved children?) to fly their airline.  And all anyone is talking about is the latest fee.

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Travel in a Time of Epidemic

April 27th, 2009 · Destinations, Experience

A year ago we arrived at Hong Kong International Airport on our way to Bali.  As we headed to the transfer area, we were stopped.  A security official put a device to my daughter’s forehead and pressed a trigger.  She looked at the result, nodded and waved us through.  Hong Kong saw the brunt of avian flu and SARS and as we transited ,primary schools were closed due to a flu outbreak that was killing young children.  They knew not to take chances.

As cases of swine flu emerge worldwide and deaths of healthy adults are reported in Mexico, it is encouraging to see the rapid response by public officials.  While there will be some fear mongering, we are a very interconnected world of travelers.  Even if you haven’t gone anywhere recently, someone you pass by at the grocery store has.  Or someone they passed by was somewhere last week.  Just take a look at this map tracking cases worldwide and you will see an emerging travel pattern.

This should not surprise parents of young children who know you can talk to your sister cross country about the cold your niece has today that will spread like wildfire through your son’s preschool next week.  There is little you can do to stop it, except frequent hand washing, covering up when you sneeze or cough, get a good night’s sleep and get your vitamins.  Most importantly, if you or anyone in your family is feeling ill, stay home!

Some airlines have followed public officials’ lead and are allowing rebooking of travel to Mexico without penalty for those who are concerned about the illness.  (I wish this was a standard practice for those who are sick at all.)  Meanwhile travel stocks are taking another hit as investors remember the impact of SARS on travel.

We did not reschedule our stopover in Hong Kong on our return trip due to the deadly flu outbreak. We let Mirielle play with other children, took her on public transportation and ate at local restaurants.  We were fine.  We weren’t worried in fact.  Then, as with the swine flu risk now, we did the only things we could to prevent infection:  we washed our hands; used tissues; tried to get eight hours of sleep; and, ate our fruits and veggies.

Mirielle at the Hong Kong Airport

Mirielle at the Hong Kong Airport

I am deeply hopeful that this outbreak is brief and the quick response prevents further deaths.  I am also deeply hopeful that paranoia, fear mongering and sensationalism do not cause families to cancel future travel plans.  It is good time to delay a trip to Mexico City, but don’t rush to cancel your August vacation.   In fact, I suspect that this could present outstanding bargains for travelers once the scope of the outbreak is understood.

Now, take a break from our computer and wash your hands.  Seriously.  It is the most important thing you can do to help slow down or stop this disease.

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