High protection, low chemical sunscreen is messy and leaves streaks on clothing worse than deodorant. Avoiding streaks while applying to energetic kids is like the the game of golf where you can always improve and you can be just a smidge off and it will ruin your day. Here are some tips’ I’ve learned earned the hard way over the past two years.

1) Apply naked. Pick out the outfit your child will wear, but apply the sunscreen before you put on clothes. This reduces white streaks on clothing and it’s easy to get the sunscreen an inch or two above hems which protects skin exposed during play.

2) Give the kid a stick. While I apply sunscreen to Mirielle’s body, I give her a stick of sunscreen in one hand and mirror in the other, and ask her to take care of her own face. Kids love the independence of doing things themselves and it keeps them distracted. It is unlikely that a younger kids will apply the sunscreen evenly and everywhere, so give cheerful feedback on missed spots, like “did you stick your ears?” or “hey, there’s a naked spot between your eyebrows and hair.” Then, grab the stick to fill in the missing spots and use your fingers to spread out all the any glops.

Kids love to apply sunscreen by "myself."

3) Turn on and tune out. Braiding hair, applying sunscreen, cutting nails and the other dreaded personal grooming routines where a still child favors success are a great time to turn on PBS Kids and let your child zone out.

Want to know the safest sunscreens for kids?  Read about it 2009 overview and reviews here and 2011 updates here.

Today is the last day each $10 donation you make to Passports with Purpose enters you to win the prizes of your choice. Here are some great reasons to visit PassportswithPurpose.com right now and click “Give Now.”

Sunrise on Covelong Beach, Tamil Nadu

Baby, it’s cold outside! (And wet and icy and snowy)
So bid on a stay in a warm vacation where you choose the destination including:
• 5-night stay at any of the nine Paradise by Marriott resorts (bestfamilytraveladvice.com)
• 2 Weekend Nights Stay at ANY Omni Hotels & Resorts from (theqfamilyadventures.com)
• $100 voucher for Travellerspoint.com’s Budget Accommodations (backpacktobuggy.com & travelblogs.com)
• US$800 towards a stay in a HomeAway Holiday-Rentals (grantourismotravels.com)
• 2 Nights at any Homewood Suites in North America (blog.trekaroo.com)

I’m dreaming of a white Christmas! (and stocking up on warm clothes to get ready.)
• $250 Snow Angel performance-level thermal clothing Gift Certificate. (dangerjillrobinson.com)
• 2 Alyeska Lift Tickets & $200 REI Gift Card (cojovo.com)
• Eddie Bauer First Ascent Downlight Sweater (wanderlustandlipstick.com)
• Heartfelt Sweater from Horny Toad (the-weekend-traveler.com)

Watching the gear.

We three kings of Orient are, bearing gifts, we traverse afar! (This gear helped me on my recent traverse from the Orient.)
• Osprey Packs Vector 22 (undersolenmedia.com)
• SteriPEN Adventurer Opti with Solar Charging Case – Water Purifier (alittleadrift.com)
• Ultra Light Towels Gift Basket (annabrones.wordpress.com)
• $100 Gift Certificate to B&H Photo (dangerjillrobinson.com)
• $250 SkyMall Gift Card (gadling.com)

Away in a manger, no crib for his bed! (and maybe no permanent roof or walls.)
One of the most compelling reasons to give to Passports with Purpose to help Friends of LAFTI (Land for Tillers’ Freedom) build 25 homes in rural Tamil Nadu, India. Rather than an international NGO with high overhead costs and varying levels of local expertise, LAFTI was founded by Tamils in Tamil Nadu, where LAFTI focuses its efforts to help India’s untouchable caste (Dalits), especially women.

While visiting Tamil Nadu, I asked about the organization to get a reaction. The name, LAFTI was not known, but the Jagannathans who founded LAFTI 50 years ago “Yes, yes, we know all about the Jagannathans and their work. Good, good.” In a country plagued by corruption where residents aren’t afraid to criticize their corrupt leaders, I felt relieved and excited that the beneficiaries of PwP’s 2010 efforts were so highly regarded.

So, right now please click over to PassportswithPurpose.com and make your tax-deductible donation.

In 2008, Passports with Purpose bought about 15 cows for Heifer International.  In 2009, Passports with Purpose bought a school in Cambodia that included a water well and numerous improvements thanks to your generous donations to American Assistance in Cambodia.  In 2010, Passports with Purpose hopes to build 25 homes in southern India by raising US$50,000 for Land For Tillers’ Freedom (LAFTI) with your help.

I am writing this post while visiting India for the first time.  I am not saddened by the poverty. I see smart, resourceful and hardworking people who just need the right resources and infrastructure to provide security for their families.  For more than 50 years, LAFTI has been committed to helping India’s lowest caste, sometimes called “the untouchables,” break from generations of  poverty and misery.  The 25 homes Passports with Purpose hopes to fund, will provide permanent, weatherproof housing and the deeds to the houses will be given to the women of the family, increasing security and independence.

Part of the fun on Passports with Purpose is that in addition to helping an award winning organization with a specific project, with every $10 donation you can enter to win your choice of exciting prizes.  TravelBlogs.com has donated a €100 voucher that can be used at Travellerspoint.com’s Budget Accomodations.  With over 6,300 accomodations to choose from all over the globe, including some that we are staying at during our currentIndia trip, the travellerspoint.com prize is extremely flexible.

To enter to win the €100 Travellerspoint voucher or other great prizes visit http://www.passportswithpurpose.com/ and click on the DONATE button before December 13, 2010.

Your dream trip to [insert place here] may not have been under the tree, but plenty of travel sites are running contests with great travel prizes (including Backpack to Buggy) that beat any after Christmas sales.

Travels with Baby is giving away a three night, all-inclusive vacation for a family of four, complete with a personal Vacation Nanny at Franklyn D. Resort & Spa on Runaway Bay or FDR Pebbles at Falmouth, both on Jamaica.  Did you see the “Vacation Nanny” part?  I entered after reading her review of the nanny assigned to each family to assist you during the day.  Through January 5, 2010, details at http://travelswithbaby.blogspot.com/2009/12/all-inclusive-family-vacation-giveaway.html.

We Just Got Back is giving away a four night stay for a family of four at the Nickelodeon Suites Resort in Orlando, Florida.  Two words – green slime.  Enter once a day through January 11, 2010 at http://www.wejustgotback.com/default.aspx?mod=giveawaynickhotel.

Lonely Planet has joined forces with the movie Nine and Alitalia for a sweepstakes where you can win an Italian getaway including business class air and a four star hotel.  (If only Daniel Day Lewis was part of the grand prize. Sigh.) Competition ends January 31, 2010.  Details and entries can be found http://www.lonelyplanet.com/campaigns/nine/

Don’t forget Backpack to Buggy’s own Vancouver 2010 Winter Olympics giveaway.

Know of another great giveaway?  Leave the 4-1-1 in the comments.

Are you interested in chances to win a trip to the Vancouver 2010 Winter Olympics, a $250 visa gift card or a voucher for a complimentary one night stay in a Studio room at any Hilton Grand Vacations resort in Orlando, FL or Las Vegas, NV?

Hilton has generously offered two great prizes you can win  here to get word out about their Official Guest of Team USA Sweepstakes.  The Sweepstakes grand prize includes a five-day, four-night trip to the 2010 Olympic Winter Games in Vancouver for four and a $10,000 check for two lucky winners along with three guests each.

If you plan to stay at any of Hilton’s U.S. hotels before December 31, 2009, just book the Go For the Gold™ rate online at http://www.hiltonhhonors.com/officialguest for an entry in the Official Guest of Team USA Sweepstakes.  Hilton has some great brands including Waldorf Astoria Collection®, Conrad® Hotels & Resorts, Hilton Hotels, Doubletree®, Embassy Suites Hotels®, Hilton Garden Inn®, Hampton®Hotels, Homewood Suites by Hilton®, and Hilton Grand Vacations®.  Your New Year’s getaway could get you to the pageantry and excitement of Vancouver 2010.  Details including rules and the list of prizes can be found at http://www.hiltonhhonors.com/officialguest.

Future freestyle skier like her uncle?

The Winter Olympics have always been a favorite for me.  Starting with Ice Skating and Ski Jumping as a kid, then the Super Slalom as I became a more active skier and most recently Freestyle Skiing, I follow the Winter Games more closely than most sports.  Something about the smaller crowds, laid back attitudes and really cool athletes appeals to me.  In my early twenties, one of my lifetime goals became to ski all of the Olympic ski areas.  So far I have enjoyed Lake Placid, Squaw Valley and Innsbruck,  but Vancouver 2010 leaves 15 more to go.

Riding the gondola at Squaw Valley, home of the 1960 Winter Games.

What is your favorite memory of the Winter Olympics or favorite competitive winter sport?  Leave your story in the comments below for a chance to win a $250 Visa gift card or a voucher for a complimentary one night stay in a Studio room at any Hilton Grand Vacations resort in Orlando, FL or Las Vegas, NV.

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Are you tired of navigating aggressive shoppers at the mall, cranky gate agents at the airport and web stores where you can’t order anything because they are offline for maintenance?

Rediscover the true spirit of giving by making a donation through Passports With Purpose.  For as little as US$10 you can help build a school in Cambodia and win prize of your choice.

A holiday in Cambodia where the slums got so much soul.

This year’s beneficiary is American Assistance for Cambodia (AAfC), an independent nonprofit organization dedicated to improving opportunities for the youth and rural poor in Cambodia.  Through their rural schools project, Passports With Purpose has raised enough money to build a school in rural Cambodia.

So you been to school for a year or two and you know you’ve seen it all.

Children biking to school in Bali.

After reaching the goal of $13, 000 in the first few days, the goal was doubled and improvements including water filtration and a school nurse can be added to the school with your help.

Passports with Purpose is an collaboration of travel bloggers who give back through this unique fundraiser.  This year they have wrangled over 50 prizes which are being raffled.  Every US$10 donated is also a chance to win a specific prize.  This year’s prizes are awesome, ranging from cameras to luggage to vacations in Costa Rica and St. Lucia.

Now you can go where people are one, now you can go where they get things done.

There are only a few more days to reach the new $26,000 goal and we are getting so close.  Enter to win Contribute to this great cause before December 21, 2009, 11:59PM PST to win some cool stuff to help AAfC and children in Cambodia.  Winners will be notified by email on January 5, 2010.

It’s a holiday in Cambodia, it’s tough, kid, but it’s life.

(I am showing my age, but the lyrics are from one of my favorite Dead Kennedys’ songs taken somewhat out of context.)

Have you ever tried to find shorts and a swimsuit in February?  Or a snowsuit in April? Or a fleece jacket in June?  It is either impossible or outrageously expensive.

So what is a family to do if they are headed to Bali in winter, Squaw Valley in spring or San Francisco in summer with fast growing kids?

Boo on Bike in dress from eBay

EBay has been my first stop.  Year round you can find both new and gently used clothes and shoes at reasonable prices.  I used eBay to buy sundresses, sandals and a sun suit for our winter trip to Bali and I found a fleece in June to get us through the San Francisco summer.  With eBay, express shipping is not always an option and auction time and the potential to be outbid should be factored into timing. I start looking for needed items six weeks in advance, but four is usually enough.

Another favorite stop is Sierra Trading Post.  This discounter sells closeouts and overstocks of high quality brands with a huge selection of outdoor clothing and gear but a increasing selection of casual and dress items plus travel gear.  I have found a good selection and great deals year round.  Last January I was able to buy some Keen sandals for our trip to Hawaii at 30% off retail. (If only finding the next size up in August was as easy.)

If you are traveling to a location popular with your neighbors, always check local consignment shops.  For example, in northern California, you can find snowsuits in April or jackets in June.  Selections are limited and other parents are looking for the same thing so it is hit and miss.

Prior to leaving for a weekend in Philadelphia, I checked the website of the Please Touch Museum for details to plan my visit. I was shocked to see the admission price was $15 per person (older than one.)  It would cost $30 for me to take Mirielle for a couple of hours.

Why was I surprised? Many of the children’s museums I have visited seem pricey: our local children’s museum is $11, our old local museum was a bargain at $8 for under 17 and $10 for adults, the Children’s Discovery Museum of San Jose is $10.  Don’t get me started on the Cal Academy of Sciences at $25 for adults (though free for under 6) or our new CT Science Center at $16 for adults and $13 for kids in a city where the median income in 2007 was only $27,654 and over 30% of the population lives below the poverty line.

Are high prices at museums leaving kids out at sea?

So a family of four needs $60 to visit museums which are often supported with public funds and whose missions are all about kids? How many families can afford a $60 visit these days?

Many museums have “free” days, but crowds can take away the fun, if a family is even able to get in.  Another option is membership. Travels with Children has an excellent example on how to find memberships that are valuable.  “Pay for itself” not withstanding, the buy-in for membership is steep at over $100 for reciprocal privileges with other member museums through the Association of Children’s Museums.

Our local library has a great program where you can “check out” free museum passes for a day which I think is a fantastic solution.  (Please recommend it to your local library or tweet @whpl for more information). On a school holiday, I went to check out passes to our local children’s museum and the librarian informed me that they had chosen to stop participating in the program a few years ago. I skipped the $22 admission.

Are most children’s museums too expensive?  Are they pricing out the people they should be serving?  What’s your opinion? Does your community have any programs to make the museums more accessible regardless of means to pay? Do you think they are working?

Check out:
*Another parent’s point of view
*An affordable children’s museum

If you live in New England or the Mid Atlantic and know a young Lego enthusiast or are one yourself, you need to come to Hartford, CT this weekend.  From Friday, November 20 to Sunday November 22 the Connecticut Convention Center is going to be a Lego wonderland.  Lego models, contests, demos, shopping and lots of hands on activities are all part of the three day Lego Kids Fest.

Why have a picture with a mall Santa, when you can have a picture with a Lego Santa?

Three years ago, while we were waiting for you to arrive, I thought a lot about what experiences I wanted you to have growing up and what type of adult I wanted to see you become.  Sign up for a therapist now, because like all parents I will always project my desires and view of the world on you.

Mirielle with Mom hanging over her.

I want you to see how you fit into the big wide world (heads up kid, you are a teeny weeny piece of it and not at the center.)  I want you to see how you are different, how you are the same, and how you will always have more to learn.  I want you to explore the big wide world through travel, food, language, music, books, and most of all friends and family. I want all this to be easy and enjoyable for you.

Learning to explore the world.

In the past three years I have learned that all I can do is provide love, support and opportunities for you.  You are already your own person with strong (and vocal) opinions of what you want and don’t want and what you like and don’t like.  (The mango does not fall far from the tree.)

When the mango does fall, at least enjoy it.

• We picked a name for you that paid homage to your grandmothers’ French maiden names and your American birthplace. You now teach grown ups how to pronounce that name.
• We travel with you as much as we can to places near and far. You always surprise us with how you adapt, the new people you let us meet, and how you cry when we pull in the driveway at home saying you “want to take airplane” or go “back to hotel” or ask mommy to teach you to drive so you can travel by yourself. (Seriously.)
  

  Running off to the next adventure.

• We keep you away from a diet of chicken fingers and spaghetti so you eat chicken satay and noodles (and BOO-ee-toes and arepas and salmon and rice and whoopie pie).
  

  Who needs chicken fingers?

• I put you in a bilingual daycare when I went back to work.  Now you understand Spanish and tell mommy not to speak it as you can hear she does not do a good job.
• We play music from around the world.  You are a rock and roll girl, but started singing along in Arabic to Shara’a Simsim from the Sesame Street Playground CD on the drive to school.
  

  Singing off to school.

• We buy you beautiful children’s clothes (mostly from Tea) avoiding the standard bubble gum pink and licensed characters.  You pick out what you are going to wear each day and have a sense of style that even tweens complement you on.
• We buy you interesting toys and no matter where we go, you find a rock to play with and don’t need anything else.
  

  Rocks are a girl's best friend.

• We love you so much.  You have a special love that you share with almost everyone you meet, bringing smiles to their faces and ours.
  

  Bringing smiles.

It’s only been three years together little girl.  You have experienced so little of what the world can offer.  But, together, I think we are on our way to making you an independent thinking, fully engaged, little citizen of the world.

This is an entry for a blogging contest from Tea Collection.  I am a groupie of their clothing which you can probably see in 75% of the photos of Mirielle on this site.  Check back next week  for a review (which I wrote before this contest) and visit the Tea Collection blog if you would also like to participate in this contest.